Intimacy and erectile dysfunction

Relationships and Erectile Dysfunction

To have erectile dysfunction and keep a loving relationship is no easy task. Toes your sometimes make jokes about your condition as to minimize the problem, you probably already know that your relationship is in serous doubt. Man ability in bed is closely link to his masculinity.
Erectile dysfunction also known as impotence is equally problematic t your partner .The first thought a women think “Is it me!”, Don’t I excite him anymore” . These problems can lead to emotional outburst and even worse mockery. There is no easy way to thru this problem but the main thing you have to keep is a clear mind and be understanding. This goes for both of you. Think of ways to show your love other than physical.

Keep the following tips in mind

1. Communication: Talk to your partner about erectile dysfunction. If your partner understands that it’s not her it will get easier.
   


2. Involve yourself and partner in other activities for example painting, sport or gardening. These activities would make you think about other things.
   


3. Spend some time together. Nothing livens up the intimacy like hot water bath or a candlelight dinner. A build up increases a man and women’s sex drive like no other.


4. Alternative sex methods: At this moment you may not be able to perform but you can still use other parts of you r body to sexually satisfy. Talk to your partner if she may have some erotic dreams that maybe you can fulfill.
   


5. Professional help: A marriage councilor or Group therapist can be beneficial to your relationship
   


6. There must be hundreds of other methods to rekindle your relationship. Don’t let erectile dysfunction get you down.

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Erectile dysfunction: Where is the CURE

So last night you could not get it up. You contracted the dreaded erectile dysfunction. Your partner said “No baby its fine it happens to everybody” which of course that does not help. So what is erectile dysfunction? Technical terms is something like this: When a male cannot create of keep an erection up for longer than the allotted time it take to have sexual intercourse. This can happens at any age or time in your life, but are more common in older people.

So now you are in your mid forties but you penis is already going 65 strong. Erectile dysfunction does not need to be problem. This epidemic does not need to be part of getting older. It is true that you may need more help than you use to need, like a bit more stroking or a bit more time between orgasms. But you should be able to enjoy sex does not matter how old you are!

So what cause erectile dysfunction? There is many things that can create these problems.

Diabetes: The high blood pressure has a negative influence on your libido and sex drive and the amount of blood that are in main arteries to your penis

Hypertension(high blood pressure)

Atherosclerosis (hardening of the arteries)

It’s important to keep you blood sugar in check especially for people with diabetes. Also make sure to take you diabetes medicine the way the doctor tells you for this can also have a negative influence your libido.

Hormones can also create havoc with your sex drive. Are you one of those guys that have like a raging bull the one day and then almost nothing for the next two days? If so have your hormones check.

Then of course there is the many medicines that your doctor has prescribed for some other illness. But did he mention that you may now get erectile dysfunction!!

Alcohol and smoking also has many negative effects on your ability to keep it up. Many students would confirm the above statements.

It could also be the relationship itself. Improving your relationship can always improve you sex life. If you or your partner does not want to be in this relationship anymore it can have dire consequences. The man’s ability to have a healthy sex drive is totally diminish when he thinking about other things eg.. is this the women for me, where are we going with this, why am I here??

These problems can be sorted out easily enough with the help of relationship counselor or couples therapist.

So now you need to know what you are going to do?

Are you going to go to the doctor?

He is going to ask you a couple of questions and then do a physical exam of some sort. He will draw blood and take some urine, do a few more test and probably come back with you need to use Viagra.

So how are you going to treat your erectile dysfunction

Are you going the hardcore route… use medicine you sort you out or are you going for the more healthy route with some sort of herbs to increase your sex drive again. Either way something needs to be done!

Please note that the use of an erectile dysfunction medicine can negative influence other parts of your body. There is many side effects associated with using a medical substance like Viagra