Self Esteem and Erectile dysfunction

When a guy starts suffering from erectile dysfunction he can become quite despondent. The more he becomes despondent to more he start suffering from low esteem and it start to create problems in normal life situations.  Erectile dysfunction can be very embarrassing which is why most men prefer not to go see the doctor or pharmacist for a prescription or talk to their partners. This longer he leaves it the longer he becomes sexualy insecure which of course reinforces the performance anxiety in men. This leads to a vicious cycle of repeated failures and negative feelings.
These feelings cause men to withdraw from the relationship and those who care for him which put a tremendous strain on liaisons. He usually tries to put distance between him and his partner and avoid sexual contact. Basically he withdraws from anything where he will be put a compromising position.  They believe that they are the reason for this problem and only they can solve it. It’s been noted by psychologist that these men feel that they are no longer physically attractive to their partners.

Women point of view of erectile dysfunction

Some women start to worry about her partner impotence . For them the feeling is that they partner don’t find them appealing anymore or he may have found something better. In some extreme cases erectile dysfunction have lead to the breakup of marriages. In a women point of view they believe the man is start to lose interest in her or don’t find her sexy or attractive anymore. Unsatisfactory sex make the women think she is inadequate which can lead to depression and loneliness.  It is advisable for men and women to seek help from medical staff or psychologist.  They need to discuss the issue and make sure they understand that this problem is body related and not mental. Breakdown in communication should be avoided by all cost.  The male should make it clear it’s not her and the female should support her partner through this difficult time.