Self Esteem and Erectile dysfunction

When a guy starts suffering from erectile dysfunction he can become quite despondent. The more he becomes despondent to more he start suffering from low esteem and it start to create problems in normal life situations.  Erectile dysfunction can be very embarrassing which is why most men prefer not to go see the doctor or pharmacist for a prescription or talk to their partners. This longer he leaves it the longer he becomes sexualy insecure which of course reinforces the performance anxiety in men. This leads to a vicious cycle of repeated failures and negative feelings.
These feelings cause men to withdraw from the relationship and those who care for him which put a tremendous strain on liaisons. He usually tries to put distance between him and his partner and avoid sexual contact. Basically he withdraws from anything where he will be put a compromising position.  They believe that they are the reason for this problem and only they can solve it. It’s been noted by psychologist that these men feel that they are no longer physically attractive to their partners.

Women point of view of erectile dysfunction

Some women start to worry about her partner impotence . For them the feeling is that they partner don’t find them appealing anymore or he may have found something better. In some extreme cases erectile dysfunction have lead to the breakup of marriages. In a women point of view they believe the man is start to lose interest in her or don’t find her sexy or attractive anymore. Unsatisfactory sex make the women think she is inadequate which can lead to depression and loneliness.  It is advisable for men and women to seek help from medical staff or psychologist.  They need to discuss the issue and make sure they understand that this problem is body related and not mental. Breakdown in communication should be avoided by all cost.  The male should make it clear it’s not her and the female should support her partner through this difficult time.

Natural with erectile dysfunction

As the saying goes …men will always be men. For a guy that experience erectile dysfunction it must feel like the end of the earth. Nowhere to go but forward. If you have experience you would know how this feels. If you reading this you most probably have felt emptiness. Millions of men suffer from impotence that has been known to lead to emotional scarring and later on mental problems which includes the dreaded depression. When men come together they talk about sex and how important it is for them and their partners. So when this disease strikes they are usually devastated.

Cure you erectile dysfunction naturally

The natural option must be by far the easiest way to “cure” you impotence.  Recent studies at various universities have found that 1 out of 5 men suffer from erectile dysfunction in some sort of another. However it’s been noted that in 50 percent of cases this can be changed with life style changes. If you are experiencing erectile dysfunction you need to ask yourself a couple of questions. Are you at risk for diabetes? Do you have family members that have heart disease? When you go to job are you acutely walking about or do you sit on the chair all day? What sort of food are you eating? Are they high in fat?
If you are experiencing erectile dysfunction and answered YES to any of these questions above you may have the answer to why you are suffering from ED.

Naturally cure ED

Even though there is no such thing as to “CURE” ED, you can minimize the issue. First thing to do is check the labels of the food you eat. Your diet may be the reason. If you suffer from high cholesterol it should be noted that you should lessen you fast food intake/fattening foods and food high in sugar. In some cases men that cut their intake of vat by 60grams have notice an affect on their sex life within 6 weeks.
Boost circulation, this means exercise. Increasing blood flow keeps down cholesterol levels.  Your arteries become clog up when you suffer from high cholesterol. Block arteries induce erectile dysfunction.
Your size of your meal can also become important. Doctors are now suggesting the person has to eat 5 small rations of food a day.
If you are not eating correctly you should think about adding a multivitamin in your diet. Slow release vitamins have shown to better.
Remember to drink 6 glasses of water a day as a minimum.
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Preventing Erectile dysfunction

Impotence has now become a very well known issue among of all ages. Men to suffer more as they get older. In fact studies in the US have shown that 50% men over the age of 40 experiences some degree of erectile dysfunction.
There are multiple reasons why men suffer from erectile dysfunction but most can be related to the following

First defense for erectile dysfunction

Your chance of having erectile dysfunction is much higher when you do the following
Smoking – It is vitally important to stop smoking. Smoking veins to constrict which makes it quite difficult to get blood to the groin area.
Avoid excessive alcohol use – Alcohol has the tendency to impair testosterone production and shrinkage of the testes. This would not only lead to erectile dysfunction but also lower sperm count.
Illegal Drugs have been known decrease desire and diminish libido among men.
It’s vitally important to exercise regularly, to get the blood flowing. Obese men are known to experience impotence issues because the bloods never get to the penile area.
Eating healthy can decrease your changes of suffering from erectile dysfunction. The better you eat, the better change you may not suffer from high cholesterol and high blood pressure.

How to treat your erectile Dysfunction

The first thing you need to do when you experience a problem is make sure it’s not mental. Look at your life and see if there is a stressful reason why you may experience ED.  This can include a problem at work or your relationship with your partner.  Men tend to put their issues aside but subconsciously your mind will not forget and bring it out when you have sex. Medical personnel would advise relationship counseling in such a case.  If you sure that your issue is not psychologically related it is most probably physical.  In such cases you have multiple herbal, pharmaceutical and mechanical options. This include herbal products that contains L-Arginine, Horny Goat Weed or Yohimbine. Most people have heard of Viagra also known as PDE5 inhibitors. As a last resort you can also use adult toys like Vacuum pumps, Injection Treatment or Surgery.

ED and Diabetes

If you are reading this you probably suffering from diabetes and you may now also suffer from erectile dysfunction. Multiple men suffer from ED which is causes by Pre existing conditions. One of these conditions is called Diabetes. Not understand the issue you need to understand Diabetes and how it interacts with the body and outcome. When a person eats glucose it gets broken down by the digestive system, which in turn is converted into energy. Pancreas produces insulin. This hormone allows the body cells to take up the sugar into the blood. When the pancreas does not produce any insulin he/she start to suffer from diabetes. This is called Type1 diabetes.  Type 2 diabetes is when the body does not respond with the insulin produced. This sickness can lead to nerve and vascular damage.

Nerve and vascular damage causes the issues with certain parts of the human body. This includes the penis. Nerve damage and insufficient blood flow will produce sexual issues. With broken nerves and improper blood flow to the penis a male will not be able sustain or obtain an erection. Men tend to think that Viagra is the option which in this case is big no-no.  Men who suffer from ED and Diabetes are treated with drugs that should not be used in combination with PDE-5 inhibitors.  Doctors will not prescribed medicine like Viagra if the male is suffering from Diabetes. Herbal alternatives also known as herbal Viagra is being used with even greater effect than Viagra itself. Before Viagra became such a big sensation men use to use herbal supplements to help them achieve an erection again. Alphamaleshop only used all natural herbal medication in its product. None of our products contain any prescription medicine.
If you are suffering from erectile dysfunction because you have diabetes I would advise visit our Online Website www.sextoyland.co.za  for more information on sex toys or visit one of our many sexual awareness blogs. Check out the herbs we have in our products and see if there is any negative reaction to diabetic medicine.  Even though diabetes will create major issues in your lifestyle it does mean it has to have any effect on your sexual wellbeing.

How to Diagnose Erectile Dysfunction

Old Age and Erectile Dysfunction

You would like to know if you have erectile dysfunction. The problem is you don’t want to go the doctor for personal reasons most probably because you are embarrass or just because this does not happen to real men. This is of course a common myth among men. Erectile dysfunction can happen to men of all ages and creeds.

First Stage - Erectile dysfunction

First you have to check out your personal history. Are you taking any drugs/or illegal substances. If so check out the side-effects. Most drugs you can search on the internet and its list of common side-effects. Almost 25% of impotence problems are because of pharmaceutical drugs. If so you always substitute the drug with another with less side effects. Please consult your doctor before you do this.

Second Stage - Erectile Dysfunction

Still no luck? So now you need to give yourself a physical examination. First touch your penis Are you sensitive? – are you are not feeling anything? If not it may indicate damage nerves. Do you have hair growing out in weird places or are you experiencing breast enlargement. If so maybe you have some sort of hormonal problem. Also examine your penis itself. Does it have any weird characteristics – bend or curve when it go erect – this can indicate peyronie’s disease which leads to erectile dysfunction. Well now if nothing has been picked up yet you have to think about the possibility of a psychological problem – maybe stress at work, a marriage falling apart, it could be one of hundreds of psychological factors that is invading your subconscious mind and thus your sex drive.

Third Stage - Erectile Dysfunction

Next on the list: Laboratory Tests. These would include blood counts, lipid profile, blood urine test (urinalysis), creatine measurement and liver enzymes. Also check your free testosterone in your blood which would clearly indicate your sex drive (low testosterone = low libido). Most testing facilities will include full diagnoses on blood work and urine tests. You still have no answer to your problem I would advise to go see a medical practitioner. Erectile dysfunction can be beaten.

Intimacy and erectile dysfunction

Relationships and Erectile Dysfunction

To have erectile dysfunction and keep a loving relationship is no easy task. Toes your sometimes make jokes about your condition as to minimize the problem, you probably already know that your relationship is in serous doubt. Man ability in bed is closely link to his masculinity.
Erectile dysfunction also known as impotence is equally problematic t your partner .The first thought a women think “Is it me!”, Don’t I excite him anymore” . These problems can lead to emotional outburst and even worse mockery. There is no easy way to thru this problem but the main thing you have to keep is a clear mind and be understanding. This goes for both of you. Think of ways to show your love other than physical.

Keep the following tips in mind

1. Communication: Talk to your partner about erectile dysfunction. If your partner understands that it’s not her it will get easier.
   


2. Involve yourself and partner in other activities for example painting, sport or gardening. These activities would make you think about other things.
   


3. Spend some time together. Nothing livens up the intimacy like hot water bath or a candlelight dinner. A build up increases a man and women’s sex drive like no other.


4. Alternative sex methods: At this moment you may not be able to perform but you can still use other parts of you r body to sexually satisfy. Talk to your partner if she may have some erotic dreams that maybe you can fulfill.
   


5. Professional help: A marriage councilor or Group therapist can be beneficial to your relationship
   


6. There must be hundreds of other methods to rekindle your relationship. Don’t let erectile dysfunction get you down.

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Absolute Answers to Erection Dysfunction

Are you looking for answers for your erectile dysfunction

Your Trouble with your erection can be harmful to you and the health of your relationship. Even though there is many effective treatments around, many men avoid the problem because they are too embarrass to go and talk to their doctor. And then there are also those that choose natural alternative medicine for erectile dysfunction.

Most men don’t want to talk about their condition for the simple reason that they think it will go away on it own.

So what is erectile dysfunction?

It is the inability to maintain or keep up an erection for amount of time to have successful sexual intercourse. There is many reasons why you could experience this : fatigue, anxiety or extreme alcohol consumption. These underlying problems can always be sorted(short term) out but then there is more extreme problems like Vascular disorders, diabetes.

Most people with erectile dysfunction experience the long term recurring medical problem. This need proper medical supervision and treatment.

In the majority of cases, affected men preserve longing and the capacity to have an orgasm and ejaculate. Erectile dysfunction means you have are unable to get an erection or maintain your erection

There is a nagging myth that those only happens to some men and that its almost non existent and that it almost never happen with real men. Fortunately this is untrue: This condition can happen to anybody at anytime. In fact there is about a 100 million men worldwide with this disease in some sort of form.

Another myth to do the rounds is that this is an old man sickness. Again this is untrue. Most men should be able perform adequately into their late 90. This problem is usually makes its appearance when other problems like vascular disease, diabetes and medications for these conditions are prescribed

Many believe that psychological problem are the main reason for impotence but again this is way off. It is true that psychological factors can cause some sort of problem but this is more an underlying problem that can be sorted out by maybe visiting a psychologist.

The physical threat aspects for erectile dysfunction is divided in 4 groups: Vascular disorders - (atherosclerosis), diabetes, high blood pressure and abnormally raised blood cholesterol.

A lifestyle can also be a reason for your problem. Ask yourself do you drink or smoke eat fatty food or do drugs.

The effect of erectile dysfunction is wide known.

1. You cannot maintain an erection.
   


2. Self confidence drops
   


3. Emotional stress(not to mention you need to perform)
   


4. Embarrassment not only in the time of the deed but when you want to ask for help who do you go to without feeling embarrass.
   

There is also a lot of factor to keep in mind if you want to diagnose yourself. Do you drink, smoke or take some sort of medication. If not then are you are under any emotional pressure. Do you have some sort of medical problem like diabetes or high blood pressure.

In almost all cases erectile dysfunction can be treated.